like i wouldn’t say i’m against drawn or written porn but the actual pornography industry is vile and there is not a single “honest” studio. not one. they’re all out there to exploit women’s bodies and it’s horrible. i admit im kind of against a lot of “amateur” porn too because it only creates more demand. sssssigh. men tho
I make porn as an extension of my sexual expression. The problem with the porn industry isn’t that men are sexually turned on by women, the problem is that people think it’s fucked up for women to be sexual. When women are sexual, suddenly we’re being used no matter how much we enjoy what we’re doing for ourselves.
If I enjoy a porn about a man getting dominated, no one accuses him of being an attention whore. No one accuses him of having mommy issues. No one accuses him of ‘giving in’ to what women want as though it’s an inherently negative thing. This is an extention of the dichotomy where men are free to do whatever they like, while women are expected to ignore their own feelings for the benefit of others.
The freedom for people to choose the do the things that make them happy is the most important thing. The porn industry is like the drug trade. The demand will always be there. It’s only set up to take advantage of people because people keep it in the dark. How easy is it to take advantage of a girl that is afraid to tell her friends and family about what she does? A lot fucking easier.
my mom has been a cop for over 20 years and she is the one who constantly warns me about police aggression and young male cops and told me that if you’re ever alone on a rural road and a cop throws their lights on to put on your four ways and drive to the next gas station before stopping because so many cops are scum and it’s not worth the chance of getting hurt. the fact that SHE feels the need to tell me this shit scares me to death